Family Self Care


The Holiday Season is a busy one and it leaves many of us stressed out, overtired and feeling a little under the weather.  Below you will find lots of ways that you and your family can focus on self-care this holiday season.  It is important to remember to care for ourselves so that our personal lights will shine bright and then we can care for others. 

  1. Set up a family game night
  2. Put on some fun music and have a family dance party
  3. Drink your water (at least 1/2 your body weight in ounces)
  4. Eat vegetables every day
  5. Move your body for at least 30 minutes
  6. Get outdoors
  7. Put on a family movie and snuggle up on the couch together
  8. Put on an audio book and draw or color as you listen to the story
  9. Start a family gratitude journal
  10. Get to Bed Early
  11. Start a Family Read Aloud Book
  12. Get takeout for dinner
  13. Call or FaceTime a family member or friend you haven’t seen in awhile
  14. Do a family yoga session (Cosmic Kids is FREE and fun for the whole family)
  15. Put your jammies on, gather some blankets, make some cocoa and head out in the car to look at Christmas lights.
  16. Work as a family to do something kind for someone else (Click HERE for some ideas)
  17. Schedule a HOME evening or a HOME day on the calendar.  Spend the entire time at home relaxing together.
  18. Take a family walk
  19. Do a puzzle together
  20. Have a family candle lit dinner.


What can you add to this list??

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Pick One Thing


I am one of those SUPER ANNOYING people who is hyper organized when it comes to Christmas.  I am a complete mess when it comes to organizing my closets, my car or other important things but I’ve got it together when it comes to Christmas.

I use the month of November to shop, decorate, wrap and complete my holiday cards.  The theory is that if I get the work done in November, I will be all calm and relaxed in December.  The vision of being curled up by a fire, watching Hallmark channel while snuggling with my family, helps me to get through my CRAZY November. The truth is that my December never looks like the vision I have in my head (my family hates Hallmark ;)).  I ALWAYS find more to do and cram our schedule so full that there is little time to breathe.

Last year was a perfect example of this.  I scheduled so many service opportunities for my family, that we were left EXHAUSTED by the time Christmas came around.  I thought that if I shared the idea on my Kids in Service website, then I should be out there doing it!  We practically took on a part time job at the Salvation Army ringing bells once a week for a two hour shift, we volunteered twice at the Food Bank, served lunch to the homeless in the park, shopped for children in need, did the Reverse Advent Calendar, delivered our Christmas jar, baked cookies for the postal employees, visited a woman’s rehabilitation home, gave out a dozen seeds of kindness, Jingled 8 families (EIGHT?!?!), visited the local nursing home and tried to complete EVERY DAY on our Kindness Calendar.  It was a rollercoaster of a month with so many emotions.  We were TIRED, INSPIRED, STRESSED OUT, JOYFUL and by the end my kids started to resent it all and would groan when it was time to go.

One morning, as I sternly told my children to SMILE while we were ringing bells in the frigid cold, I had an out of body experience.  What was I doing?  Was I being as kind to my children as I was to the strangers who put change in the red bucket?  Was this manic pace of helping others, hurting us?  We were running from one project to the next, all while trying to fit in homeschool, chores, making homemade gifts and Christmas fun.  That is when I admitted to myself it was too much.

This December already looks a lot different in our house.  We decided on a few favorite service projects (many of them simple) to complete over the course of the month and have had to say no to many others.  We have also cut way back on our homemade gifts.  Instead we are playing daily board games, reading holiday stories together and trying to save some whitespace in our crazy calendar.

Why am I sharing this story?  I want to encourage YOU (or anyone who is still reading at this point) to pick only ONE act of kindness to do as a family this holiday.  Pick just one!  I know there are so many options this time of year but our calendars are also way more hectic.  Save those service projects for other times of year when you have more time and space to devote to them.  The food bank needs help ALL year long and the nursing home residents need cheering up more in March than they do now with all of the carol groups coming through.

Pick ONE thing and it can be a simple thing.  Maybe you buy some $5 gift cards to a local coffee shop to spread them around to people who could use a little cheer.  Or pick one tag off of the giving tree, bake cookies for a neighbor or pick one of our other holiday kindness ideas.  Whatever you pick, talk it over as a family and make sure that the activity does not add any more stress to the season.  It is important to remember self-care for EVERYONE in your home this holiday.  If you are not taking care of yourselves, then you will not be able take care of others.

The only way you can be a LIGHT this holiday season is to take care of yourself.





Granting Wishes

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This summer my local Kids in Service group started a project with our older kids (10 and up) called Granting Wishes.  We like to think of it as a Make a Wish program for seniors.

This project was inspired by Ruby, a 5th grade girl in Arkansas, who visited area nursing homes daily while her mother worked as a nurse. Ruby tried to keep busy and eventually started talking with the residents.  Through her conversations she would ask the residents about their wishes.  She was surprised to learn that many of their wishes were simple (new shoes, an electric razor, Vienna sausages) and this led to a service project where she helped to make their wishes come true. Ruby is an INCREDIBLE Kid and such an inspiration.

This past spring we contacted the local nursing home that our KIS group has been working with for the past 4 years.  We asked if we could partner with them for a similar project and the Activities director, who had heard about Ruby’s story, was excited to provide a similar experience for her residents.  Many of the residents at the local Assisted Living/Nursing home are nuns and many do not have family near by.  It was my hope that this summer’s Granting Wishes Project would foster some connections between the kids and residents that would lead to an Adopt a Grandparent program in the fall.

Twenty children signed up for this project and the group has visited three times now and each time has been magical.  The kids break into small groups and have a list of residents they are to visit.  Each week I stress that their main goal is not to gather the wishes (that is the secondary goal) but to make a connection with the senior and get to know them.  It has been so much fun to watch the interactions between the seniors and the students.  The kids have asked about what life was like when they were children, their interests, about their families and their wishes and dreams.

“They were just like us!” one girl said during our reflection time.  “I am so surprised at how easy they are to talk with.” another boy said.  “I was so nervous when I came but I feel so good after the visits.”

Many of the wishes that the kids collected are very simple to grant (Oreo cookies, crossword puzzle books, DVDs) and others are harder to grant (their spouse back, a time-machine and World Peace).  We have tried to find at least one wish for each resident that we can grant and now the kids are working to make them come true.


This week we will meet to grant the wishes and I can’t wait!  We have already granted two wishes and the recipients were overjoyed.  One was a golfer, who golfs all over her small room.  We brought her bright golf balls (so that she can easily spot them) and a putting machine so that the ball will return to her once she reaches the hole.  “This is all for me?” she said, and she embraced the girls in a group hug.  “Please come back and see me again!” she said to the girls.   It was a beautiful moment and this project has been one of the highlights of my summer!


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Kids in Service FREE Printable Book List

Kids in Service Printable Booklist

We have compiled all of our book recommendations from the Kids in Service site into one handy, printable list.  This way you can grab it when you are headed to the library or download it to your phone so that you always have it.  It is organized by category and has age recommendations for each book. The best part is, it’s FREE!

This list is updated each month when we add new book recommendations to the site. We hope that this list will inspire you to share some good stories with the little guys in your life today!

Click on any of the icons to download our list.  






Christmas Card Recycling Project

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Here is an easy and fun project you and your kids can do together after Christmas.  St. Judes Children’s Ranch collects the fronts of Christmas cards so that the teens in their program can turn them into new cards to sell.  This is part of their “effort to provide the teens with life and work skills.” (St. Jude’s Children’s Ranch website)

Step 1. Have your children collect all of the non-photo cards you have received for Christmas.

Step 2.  Have them sort out the cards that can not be sent (Hallmark, American Greetings and Disney can not be used by St. Jude’s Children’s Ranch).

Step 3.  If age appropriate, have the kids cut the fronts off of the cards.

Step 4.  Put all of the card fronts into a mailing envelop and send it to: St. Jude’s Ranch for Children, 100 St. Jude’s St., Boulder City, NV 89005

This is an easy service project that helps to recycle your holiday cards while helping the teens at St. Jude’s Children’s Ranch.


Project Kindness

“When given the choice of being right or being kind, choose KIND.”

Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

Here are a few projects that you can do to spread kindness around your community! Click on an image below to learn more about that project.


10 Quick Family Service Projects You can Start TODAY






A Clip from one of our FAVORITE movies WONDER (Lionsgate Film November 2017).

The two books Wonder and Auggie and Me by R.J. Palacio were so great!!

Click HERE to find more books with a theme of Kindness.


Welcome to Kids in Service

The Kids in Service site was created to inspire families to participate in age appropriate service projects to help their community and beyond.
What can you expect to find on the Kids in Service Site?
  • Age Appropriate Service Project Ideas For Kids
  • Activities that Teach Children about Kindness & Gratitude
  • Book Recommendations to help reinforce the themes of Kindness & Gratitude
  • Stories of Incredible Kids and Families who are Making a Difference in their Communities
  • Seasonal Projects, Activities & Stories
  • A Project Calendar of Service Projects in Your Area

I hope that you will check back often and subscribe to our monthly newsletter so that you will updated on new service project ideas and book recommendations.

Please share the community projects that you are leading too, it is fun to learn and be inspired from one another.

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Thanks for visiting!