Welcome to YEAR TWO of the Kids in Service Parent Book Club!! I had so much fun reading UnSelfie by Dr. Michele Borba last year with this community that I decided to keep the KIS Parent Book Club going. This is a NO STRESS book club and so it was important to find a powerful book that is short in length, well reviewed and a pleasure to listen to on audio. The book I have chosen this year is, Deep Kindness by Houston Kraft. I have only just begun this book and I already love it!
I hope you will join us for KIS Parent Book Club this year. The reading plan I created is so gentle but many people who reviewed the book read it in one setting. There is no reading in December (a time to catch up), most months have less than 20 pages for the whole month and it will all be wrapped up before the busy month of May is upon us. I know life is crazy and wanted to create a reading plan that would help you to succeed in reading this powerful book this school year.
This book is available for free through OverDrive if your library is a participant. The book is read by the author and you can support your local bookstore by buying the audio through libro.fm or the print version through bookshop.org. It can be found wherever you get your books (it’s available on Scribd for people who are members!). I can’t wait to read this book with you this school year!
‘Peace cannot be kept by force; it can only be achieved by understanding.’
– Albert Einstein
The United Nation’s International Peace Day is on September 21st. This holiday is meant to promote peace and unity throughout the world. Here are some ideas of how you can celebrate Peace Day with Your kids.
1. Read Books that Inspire Peace and Unity
There are many great books to inspire both peace and unity. You can check out our favorite books HERE in the Kids in Service Book Corner.
2. Observe a Minute of Silence
Many schools and organizations will pause for one minute of silence at noontime on September 21st. This minute is a time to reflect upon all those around the world and the importance of celebrating our similarities and differences. Encourage your kids to spend the minute with you in silence and reflection.
3. Draw Pictures of Peace
It’s time to break out the art supplies or sidewalk chalk and allow your kids to draw pictures of what PEACE looks like to them.
4. Write a Peace Day Pledge
What can you as a family do to promote peace in your house, your neighborhood, your community and the world? Create a Peace Day Pledge that you can come back to again and again throughout the year.
“The Peace Crane Project invites every student on the planet to fold an origami crane, write a message of peace on its wings, then exchange it with another student somewhere in the world. The Project builds friendships, strengthens hand-eye coordination and writing skills, teaches geography, exposes students to new languages and cultures, and EMPOWERS YOUTH to make a difference in their community, country, and world. Classrooms, teachers, students, schools, community groups, and individuals are welcome. It’s FREE to participate!” Check out their website to learn more!
Todd Parr is a genius when it comes to explaining BIG topics to little kids. In The Peace Book his simple language and bright pictures help children to understand what peace means in this world. This book can be found in many forms including board book for the youngest readers in your house.
Peace Train is a picture book that illustrates Cat Stevens’ popular song. Peter Reynolds is a favorite around here and he is the illustrator of these beautiful illustrations. Down below you will find a YouTube read aloud link of Cat Stevens “singing” this book! It is wonderful.
Wangari’s Trees of Peace is a beautiful true story about hope and determination.
From the publisher: “As a young girl growing up in Kenya, Wangari was surrounded by trees. But years later when she returns home, she is shocked to see whole forests being cut down, and she knows that soon all the trees will be destroyed. So Wangari decides to do something—and starts by planting nine seedlings in her own backyard. And as they grow, so do her plans . . .
This true story of Wangari Maathai, environmentalist and winner of the Nobel Peace Prize, is a shining example of how one woman’s passion, vision, and determination inspired great change.”
Can You Say Peace? by Karen Katz is a book about International Peace Day. This book shares different ways to say “PEACE” in different languages around the globe. The bright illustrations and simple language make it a great book for all young children.
Peace is an Offering by Annette LeBox is a beautiful book that explains the meaning of peace and it’s importance. It explains in simple ways what peace looks like in our everyday lives and how kids can share peace with others. It also talks about finding peace in times of sadness and tragedy.
peace by Wendy Anderson Halperin is a beautiful book that explores the concept of peace and how we can bring it to our world. In the book kids will learn that idea of peace starts with our own hearts. This book includes activities and encourages kids to explore peace through the 5 senses.
In the book Same, Same but Different by Jenny Sue Kostecki-Shaw, two pen pals who live across the globe from each other discover how they may live in different countries but they have so many similarities.
This is How We Do It by Matt Lamothe explores the life of 7 different children from around the world. This book shows the similarities and differences as we explore where these children live, what they wear, their families, what they eat and so much more.
Last week Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood held their SCREEN FREE WEEK. This was the fourth or fifth screen free week that our family has participated in and it was definitely the hardest. My children are now teens/pre-teens and the pandemic has made all of us turn to screens for outside connection and distraction. As a family we modified our expectations of screen free week and allowed the following: school work, checking email once a day, checking texts 3 times a day, and face timing with friends and family. We also modified the dates and started Sunday, May 2 and went through Friday, May 7th.
My son had the hardest time. The first day he wandered around the house aimlessly, unwilling to partake in any of the ideas that I suggested for him. By day 2 he had dusted off his drawing pad and was willing to play a game or two but he was still so moody. It was a rainy and cold start to the week and that did not help his sullen mood. By day three, he seemed a bit more at ease but still missed the video games that he relies on for relaxation and fun.
My daughter struggled at first, she really missed YouTube. After day one, she too eased in and found solace in her audio books, photography and crafting.
Unplugging from social media was the toughest part for me but that urge to check my phone only lasted for a day and a half. By day three, I was in the groove and did not miss social media AT ALL.
As a family we finished a 1,000 piece puzzle, started listening to Harry Potter and theGoblet of Fire on audio, played dozens of games (including one that my son made up which was so fun), finished 5 books, took a few hikes, played ball at the park, had LONG family dinners and listened to LOTS of music.
Yesterday I asked the kids if they learned anything from their Screen Free Week and if they may change any of the habits that they had picked up during the pandemic? They both said that the week was fine but that they love their screens and plan to go back to using screens during their designated screen times. I know that they missed their screens and that they are very important to them. However as the weather gets nicer I know they also enjoy time outside and time being creative. I am hopeful that this break reminded them of all of their other interests and hobbies and they can find a better balance. I know that I enjoyed Screen Free week and it was an important reset for me.
I was excited to be asked to appear on the Love of Learning podcast this month. It was so much fun to talk with Deyan Stanchev from his home in Bulgaria about families serving together. Deyan and his team created the Love of Learning podcast to explore the idea of mindful parenting and they have had many interesting guests since their start in October 2020.
In this Kids in Service episode (click HERE to listen), we talk about the start of Kids in Service, indirect vs. direct service, serving with our children, character education, books as teaching tools and homeschooling. It was so much fun to record and I hope you enjoy listening.
The Love of Learning Podcast can be found wherever you listen to podcasts.
There are so many WONDERFUL books celebrating women who have changed the world. Here are some of our favorites. Many of the books below have read aloud links to YouTube.
This is book one of a three book series by Chelsea Clinton. In this first book you learn the stories of 13 American women who persisted and changed the world. This book includes the stories of: “Harriet Tubman, Helen Keller, Clara Lemlich, Nellie Bly, Virginia Apgar, Maria Tallchief, Claudette Colvin, Ruby Bridges, Margaret Chase Smith, Sally Ride, Florence Griffith Joyner, Oprah Winfrey, Sonia Sotomayor”. This book is a wonderful collection of inspirational stories and would be perfect to share with children ages 5 and up.
The Ordinary People Change the World books by Brad Meltzer are well LOVED in our house. I think my daughter has almost every one of them and reads them all the time. I love them because they show that famous people who have changed the world are still people after all. Most have have had to overcome a lot of adversity and challenges to make change happen. Brad Meltzer makes the world of biographies so much fun and the illustrations by Christoper Eliopoulos are wonderful. They always hide the next famous person they are planning to write a biography for at the end of the book and it so much fun to hunt for them. This series has books about lots of famous women like: Sonia Sotomayor, Rosa Parks, Harriet Tubman, Billie Jean King, Jane Goodall, Anne Frank, Marie Curie, Sacagawea, Lucille Ball and Amelia Earhart. Frida Kahlo and Oprah Winfrey books are coming soon. Ages 5 and up
This book is the children’s biography of one of my heroes. Rachel Carson wrote a book in the early 60’s, called Silent Spring. This book alerted the world to the harmful effects of DDT and other pesticides that they were using and started an environmental movement. This book is the story of her life and how she came to write that important book . I would recommend this book for ages 6 and up.
This book, written by Malala Yousafzai, is an autobiographical story of her life done for young children. The story begins with Malala watching a show about a boy with a magic pencil and all he does with it. She then takes this idea of a magic pencil and shares all of the wonderful things she would do if she had one. The story tells, in a gentle manor, the story of how Malala took her own real life pencil and became a voice that stood up for herself and others in her home of Pakistan. This book is recommended for grades 3 and up.
Hidden Figures (both book and movie) are a favorite in this house. This beautiful picture book is a wonderful overview of the lives of Dorothy Vaughan, Mary Jackson, Katherine Johnson, and Christine Darden and how they helped to launch a man into space. In a time of segregation and gender inequality, these four women of color showed that their genius minds were of great value to the space program. The read aloud link below is read by Laura Freeman, who is the illustrator of this book! This book is recommended for ages 4 and up.
This is the story of Maya Lin, who designed the famous Vietnam Memorial in Washington, DC. Maya Lin was a senior in college when she submitted her design for the memorial. There were 1,421 entries into the contest and many objected to her winning the contest because of her age and inexperience. This story shares her childhood, all that inspired her to become an artist and architect, the story of how she envisioned the memorial and her bravery to stand up for herself when people objected to her design being the winner. This book would be great for ages 5 and up.
My children love this beautiful book about Jane Goodall’s life. We would recommend it for children ages 4 and up. From the publisher:“Acclaimed picture book biographer Jeanette Winter has found her perfect subject: Jane Goodall, the great observer of chimpanzees. Follow Jane from her childhood in London watching a robin on her windowsill, to her years in the African forests of Gombe, Tanzania, invited by brilliant scientist Louis Leakey to observe chimps, to her worldwide crusade to save these primates who are now in danger of extinction, and their habitat. Young animal lovers and Winter’s many fans will welcome this fascinating and moving portrait of an extraordinary person and the animals to whom she has dedicated her life.”
This is the story of tennis stars and sisters, Venus and Serena Williams. This book shares their life story, their bond and the dedication and hard work they had to put in to make their dream a reality. The book is illustrated in beautiful collages. This is a longer picture book and we’d recommend it for children ages 5 and up.
From the publisher:“The Cambodian Dancer, a Cambodian book for children, is the true story of a Cambodian refugee — a dancer and teacher — who built a life in the U.S. after fleeing the Killing Fields of the Khmer Rouge. She then became a counselor to other Cambodian refugees and created a school of dance for children. Her gift of hope was to teach children in the Cambodian community the traditional dances of their country, so young people growing up far away from the land of their ancestors would know about Cambodian culture and customs. Through straightforward language and colorful illustrations, this multicultural children’s story communicates to children a sense of the joy, sadness, injustice, and triumph that lives on in young Cambodian Americans. It shows that it is possible to overcome great hardship and that a single decision can do much to heal oneself and others. This touching multicultural children’s book brings a message of positivity to a true story of human hope and resilience.” This book is for ages 4 and up.
From the publisher: “Sylvia Earle first lost her heart to the ocean as a young girl when she discovered the wonders of the Gulf of Mexico in her backyard. As an adult, she dives even deeper. Whether she’s designing submersibles, swimming with the whales, or taking deep-water walks, Sylvia Earle has dedicated her life to learning more about what she calls “the blue heart of the planet.” With stunningly detailed pictures of the wonders of the sea, Life in the Ocean tells the story of Sylvia’s growing passion and how her ocean exploration and advocacy have made her known around the world. This picture book biography also includes an informative author’s note that will motivate young environmentalists.” This book is for ages 5 and up.
I use to read this book every February in my 2nd and 3rd grade class. It is a wonderful story of Rosa Parks life and how her one courageous act started a civil rights movement. This book would be great to share with children ages 6 and up. There is a lot of information in this book and it is a great springboard to a rich conversation about segregation and prejudice. I am a strong believer that a good picture book can be used for children in ANY grade (even high school) and I believe that this is one of them.
From the publisher:“This stunning picture book is the perfect gift for art enthusiasts of all ages. When her mother was worn out from caring for her five sisters, her father gave her lessons in brushwork and color. When polio kept her bedridden for nine months, drawing saved her from boredom. When a bus accident left her in unimaginable agony, her paintings expressed her pain and depression – and eventually, her joys and her loves. Over and over again, Frida Kahlo turned the challenges of her life into art. Now Jonah Winter and Ana Juan have drawn on both the art and the life to create a playful, insightful tribute to one of the twentieth century’s most influential artists. Viva Frida!” This book is for ages 4 and up.
From the publisher: “As a child in Oklahoma, Wilma Mankiller experienced the Cherokee practice of Gadugi, helping each other, even when times were hard for everyone. But in 1956, the federal government uprooted her family and moved them to California, wrenching them from their home, friends, and traditions. Separated from her community and everything she knew, Wilma felt utterly lost until she found refuge in the Indian Center in San Francisco. There, she worked to build and develop the local Native community and championed Native political activists. She took her two children to visit tribal communities in the state, and as she introduced them to the traditions of their heritage, she felt a longing for home.
Returning to Oklahoma with her daughters, Wilma took part in Cherokee government. Despite many obstacles, from resistance to female leadership to a life-threatening accident, Wilma’s courageous dedication to serving her people led to her election as the first female chief of the Cherokee Nation. As leader and advocate, she reinvigorated her constituency by empowering them to identify and solve community problems.
This beautiful addition to the Big Words series will inspire future leaders to persevere in empathy and thoughtful problem-solving, reaching beyond themselves to help those around them. Moving prose by award-winning author Doreen Rappaport is interwoven with Wilma’s own words in this expertly researched biography, illustrated with warmth and vivacity by Linda Kukuk.” This book is recommended for ages 4 and up.
The Little People, Big Dreams biographical series has over 60 books. Some of the notable women are Anne Frank, Michelle Obama, Greta Thunberg, Aretha Franklin, Mother Theresa, Coco Chanel, Dolly Parton, Zaha Hadid and many more. These books are meant for young readers and great for ages 4 and up. From the publisher:“Anne Frank was born in Germany to a loving family. But when World War II broke out, Anne and her family had to hide in a secret annex in Amsterdam. Here, Anne wrote her famous diary, describing her belief in people’s goodness and her hopes for peace. After the war, her diary captured the hearts of the public and she became one of the most important diarists of the 20th century. This moving book features stylish and quirky illustrations and extra facts at the back, including a biographical timeline with historical photos and a detailed profile of Anne’s life.”
The Tree Lady by H Joseph Hopkins tells the true story of Katherine Olivia Sessions and her love of nature and trees. Katherine grew up in the late 1800s and was the first woman to graduate form the University of California with a degree in science! Taking a job in San Diego, she could not believe the barren landscape. She followed her heart and dreams and led a movement that transformed the city into the lush place it is today. This book would be great for ages 5 and up.
This beautiful picture book tells the story of how Ruth Bader Ginsburg’s life. Ruth was a trailblazer for much of her life as she worked hard to make sure that all people were represented fairly. I love the lesson at the end of the book that says just because you disagree with someone, does not mean you are disagreeable and can’t be friends. I’d recommend this book for children ages 5 and up.
From the publisher:“Eugenie Clark fell in love with sharks from the first moment she saw them at the aquarium. She couldn’t imagine anything more exciting than studying these graceful creatures. But Eugenie quickly discovered that many people believed sharks to be ugly and scary—and they didn’t think women should be scientists.
Determined to prove them wrong, Eugenie devoted her life to learning about sharks. After earning several college degrees and making countless discoveries, Eugenie wrote herself into the history of science, earning the nickname “Shark Lady.” Through her accomplishments, she taught the world that sharks were to be admired rather than feared and that women can do anything they set their minds to.
An inspiring story by critically acclaimed zoologist Jess Keating about finding the strength to discover truths that others aren’t daring enough to see. Includes a timeline of Eugenie’s life and many fin-tastic shark facts!”
One Plastic Bag by Miranda Paul is the true story of a woman named Isatou Ceesay who took on the growing problem of trash in her village in Gambia. The trash littering the streets was killing goats (who ate plastic bags), caused malaria outbreaks and created a terrible smell. Isatou decided she could no longer ignore this problem and gathered a group of women to recycle the trash and turn it into treasure. I love the beautiful illustrations in this book and the powerful message is one that all people over age 3 should hear. You can learn how to make your own plastic bag purse by clicking HERE.
My children love this book! They love reading all of the fun facts about the first ladies and their families. This book is recommended for age 5 and up.
From the Publisher:For every president, there has been a first lady, sometimes two. Who were these women? How has the job of First Lady (unpaid and unelected) changed over time? The Smart About format proves just right for covering history in an easy, appealing way.
This is the second book of a three book series from Vashti Harrison. This book features inspiring stories from 35 creative women around the world. Stories include: (from the publisher) “Mary Blair, an American modernist painter who had a major influence on how color was used in early animated films, actor/inventor Hedy Lamarr, environmental activist Wangari Maathai, architect Zaha Hadid, filmmaker Maya Deren, and physicist Chien-Shiung Wu. Some names are known, some are not, but all of the women had a lasting effect on the fields they worked in.” This book is recommended for ages 8 and up.
From the publisher: “Kate Pankhurst, descendent of Emmeline Pankhurst, has created this wildly wonderful and accessible book about women who really changed the world. Discover fascinating facts about some of the most amazing women who changed the world we live in. Fly through the sky with the incredible explorer Amelia Earhart, and read all about the Wonderful Adventures of Mary Seacole with this fantastic full colour book. Bursting full of beautiful illustrations and astounding facts, Fantastically Great Women Who Changed the World is the perfect introduction to just a few of the most incredible women who helped shaped the world we live in. List of women featured: Jane Austen, Gertrude Ederle, Coco Chanel, Frida Kahlo, Marie Curie, Mary Anning, Mary Seacole, Amelia Earhart, Agent Fifi, Sacagawa, Emmeline Pankhurst, Rosa Parks, Anne Frank”
This is the story of 15 black women who made big advancements in science. This book includes inspiring biographies of astronaut Mae Jemison, mathematician Katherine Johnson, cancer researcher Dr.Jane C. Wright and 12 others. This book is recommended for ages 9 and up.
From the publisher:“Throughout history, Black women have blazed trails across the fields of science, technology, engineering, and mathematics. Black Women in Science brings something special to black history books for kids, celebrating incredible Black women in STEM who have used their brains, bravery, and ambition to beat the odds.”
It’s almost Presidents’ Day and we have some great books to help your kids celebrate the leaders from our past and present. Many of the books listed below have YouTube read aloud links for you to enjoy the books right now. Happy Reading!
From the publisher: Today at school we celebrated Presidents’ Day by putting on a play. Mrs. Madoff said I could be George Washington because his birthday is the same as mine. Charlie was Abraham Lincoln because he’s the tallest kid in our class. Everyone else had very important parts to play, too. At the end of the day we voted for class president, and you’ll never guess who won!
From the publisher:When Grace’s teacher reveals that the United States has never had a female president, Grace decides she wants to be the nation’s first and immediately jumpstarts her political career by running in her school’s mock election! The race is tougher than she expected: her popular opponent declares that he’s the “best man for the job” and seems to have captured the votes of all of the class’s boys. But Grace is more determined than ever. Even if she can’t be the best man for the job, she can certainly try to be the best person!
This timely story not only gives readers a fun introduction to the American electoral system but also teaches the value of hard work, courage, independent thought — and offers an inspiring example of how to choose our leaders.
From the publisher:Imagine living in the White House, a mansion where you wouldn’t have to leave home to go bowling or see a movie! Imagine a chef to cook anything you like. “Two desserts tonight, Madam President? No problem!” A multicultural cast of children imagines what it would be like to be president. Readers will be so caught up in the fun they won’t realize that the book is also an ingenious teaching device and discussion starter. A note about the presidency accompanies the story.
From the publisher: In this reverentially funny tale from Deborah Chandra written in verse and based on Washington’s letters, diaries, and other historical records, readers will find out what really happened as they follow the trail of lost teeth to complete tooflessness.
From battling toothaches while fighting the British, to having rotten teeth removed by his dentists, the Father of His Country suffered all his life with tooth problems. Yet, contrary to popular belief, he never had a set of wooden teeth. Starting at the age of twenty-four, George Washington lost on average a tooth a year, and by the time he was elected president, he had only two left!
From the publisher: “Kids always search for heroes, so we might as well have a say in it,” Brad Meltzer realized, and so he envisioned this friendly, fun approach to biography – for his own kids, and for yours. Each book tells the story of one of America’s icons in an entertaining, conversational way that works well for the youngest nonfiction readers, those who aren’t quite ready for the Who Was series. Each book focuses on a particular character trait that made that role model heroic. For example, Abraham Lincoln always spoke up about fairness, and thus he led the country to abolish slavery. This book follows him from childhood to the presidency, including the Civil War and his legendary Gettysburg Address. This engaging series is the perfect way to bring American history to life for young children, and to inspire them to strive and dream.
From the publisher: George Washington crossed the Delaware in the dead of night. Abraham Lincoln saved the Union. And President William Howard Taft, a man of great stature . . . well, he got stuck in a bathtub. Now how did he get unstuck?
From the Publisher:For every president, there has been a first lady, sometimes two. Who were these women? How has the job of First Lady (unpaid and unelected) changed over time? The Smart About format proves just right for covering history in an easy, appealing way.
From the publisher: Kids will love discovering the floor plan of the White House, a list of presidential perks, and lots of interesting info about all the presidents, from George Washington to Barack Obama. (Did you know he is the only president born in Hawaii?) Each page is jam-packed with trivia, fun facts, and information on the historical events of each presidency.
From the Publisher:Did you know that John Quincy Adams kept an alligator in the bathtub, while Thomas Jefferson’s pride and joy was his pair of bear cubs? Andrew Jackson had a potty-mouthed parrot, and Martin Van Buren got into a fight with Congress over his two baby tigers. Find out all about the weird, wacky, little, big, scary, strange animals that have lived in the White House. Perfect for election year collections and displays. This rollicking, rhyming look at the animal residents of the White House introduces each set of pets with a funny verse along with cool facts and presidential stats. This trek through history will delight any animal-loving kid.
From the publisher:Welcome to the White House! Go behind the scenes to get a 360-degree view of America’s most famous president’s residence, from how it was built in 1792 and the fire of 1812, to today’s state dinners, celebrations, celebrity pets, and more. Discover through 1,000 fun-to-read facts what it’s like to live and work at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue, the quirky rules of the house and how the Secret Service keeps it safe. Find out how the kids who have lived there play, watch movies, and entertain friends. With a treasure trove of material from the White House Historical Association, this book presents a fascinating story of the building and the many people who have shaped its 225-year history.
For the past few years we have been doing the Reverse Advent Calendar from Passionate Penny Pincher. This project is a WONDERFUL way to help your kids focus on others during the busy holiday season. My kids like to decorate cardboard boxes for their items and it is fun to watch the boxes fill up during the month of December. My best advice is to buy the food ahead of time and store it some place where it wont be accidentally consumed! Then each day have your children “go shopping” to retrieve the item for that day.
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This year I was inspired to create two new giving calendar’s to encourage EVERYONE to participate in Season’s Giving. I created a Solstice Givingcalendar and an 8 Days of Givingcalendar that you can download and print out.
Last year in November, I gave my children the Reverse Advent Calendar list and a grocery budget. They logged on to our local grocery store’s website and worked together to purchase the groceries online. Many grocery store chains and Walmart offer curbside pick up or delivery, so that your kids can do this activity from the safety of home. Not only did they learn about giving, they also learned about budgeting and the cost of food.
So many are in need during this holiday season. If your family is able to give back, I hope you will consider participating in Season’s Giving. This is a wonderful lesson for your children and it will benefit so many people.
This booklist has been compiled over the years as my children have lost loved ones and have started relationships with the seniors at our local nursing home. If you are grieving the loss of a loved one, I am so very sorry. I hope that you and your children will find books in here that will bring some comfort and peace as you learn to live this new life without that special person.
Books that deal with Aging and Friendships with the Elderly
The Tide by Clare Helen Welsh (ages 4 and up) is a book that deals with dementia. The grandad in the book is starting to forget things and it causes some emotions in his granddaughter. This is a beautiful story is about how the people we love will always love us, even if they start to lose their memory. Below you can listen to the author read her story in her beautiful accent.
Mr. George Baker by Amy Hest (ages 5 and up) is a book about a special friendship between a 100 year old man and a young neighbor boy. The boy describes how wonderful his friend George is and shares that he is 100 but never learned to read. The two go to school together on the bus and George goes to a special adult classroom to learn how to read. This book is just beautiful and a favorite of mine!
Sunshine Home by Eve Bunting (ages 4 and up) is the story of a boy going to see his grandmother in the nursing home for the first time. She has fallen and can no longer live at home and he is scared about visiting her in the nursing home and worried that she has changed. The boy finds out that his grandmother is still the same wonderful person she always has been. This book does a great job of describing what nursing homes are like to ease nervous feelings that little ones may be experiencing.
Miss Tizzy by Libba Moore Gray (ages 3 and up) is the story about a wonderful elderly neighbor named Miss Tizzy. Miss Tizzy is so loved by the children in her neighborhood and she leads them in daily activities, games and projects. When Miss Tizzy gets sick, the children are very sad. They come together to show her the same love she has shown them with daily acts of kindness. This is such a beautiful book about friendship.
The Patchwork Quilt by Valerie Flournoy (ages 4 and up) is the story about the relationship between a child and her grandmother who lives with her. Her grandmother starts a patchwork quilt and her granddaughter, Tanya, offers to help. They collect scraps from all over the place, each scrap a reminder of something special in their life. When grandma gets sick, Tanya is determined to keep the quilt going. When grandma is feeling better, she is able to finish the quilt and they are left with a beautiful keepsake.
The Old Woman Who Named Things by Cynthia Rylant (ages 4 and up) is a beautiful book about a lonely older woman who loves to name things. She has outlived all of her friends and so she is very much alone and names only things that can outlive her (her car, chair etc.). A puppy comes into her life one day and things begin to change. This book will inspire your and your children to reach out to the elderly people in their life who may be lonely.
Wilfrid Gordon McDonald Partridge by Mem Fox (ages 4 and up) is the story about a boy who lives next door to a nursing home. He knows all of the people who live there and runs errands for them. He has a very special relationship with one resident, Miss Nancy, who has lost her memory. Wilfrid does not know what a memory is, so he goes on a quest through the nursing home to find out so that he can help Miss Nancy. I LOVE this sweet story so much.
Books for Children Dealing with Death and Grief
The Dragonfly Story by Kelly Owen (ages 3 and up) is a beautiful book for ALL ages. This book is based on a well shared short story by an unknown author (Click Here for one version). I found this short story when I lost my sister in-law to breast cancer 10 years ago. My son was 3 at the time and this story brought all of us so much comfort and peace at the time.
The Goodbye Book by Todd Parr (ages 2 and up) is a great book to explain loss to young children. It is simple, easy to understand and yet so powerful. The book goes through the different emotions that your child might be feeling as they go through the grieving process. It is such a great book!
God Gave us Heaven by Laura J. Bryant and Lisa Tawn Bergren (ages 3-7) is a sweet story and does a great job of explaining the concept of heaven for little ones. It is a Christian book, so that may not be appropriate for your family.
Something Sad Happened: A Toddler’s Guide to Understanding Death by Bonnie Zucker (ages 2-4) is a very simple and sweet book about losing a loved one. In this book the child looses his grandmother and the mother explains death in terms that a child can understand and also explains the feelings of grief that may be felt with the loss.
This book is on YouTube but the video creator would not let me post it here. A quick search will help you to find the video.
The Invisible String by Patrice Karst (ages 4 and up) is a wonderful story about the invisible string that connects you to the people you love, even if they are not physically with you. This book can be used to not only deal with death but for children who have anxiety about thunderstorms or being separated from their parents. This is a book we have on our bookshelf.
Life is Like the Wind by Shona Innes (ages 4 and up) is a simple story about what it means to be alive. The book was written by a child psychologist and compares life to the wind. It deals with feelings of grief in ways that children can understand. This book is for all faiths in that it discusses in simple terms the different beliefs of what happens when someone dies.
Memory Box: A Book About Grief by Joanna Rowland (ages 4 and up) is a beautiful book that follows a little girl through her grief. She creates a memory box of mementos that remind her of the loved one she has lost. This book is a great conversation starter to discuss grief and the beauty of the memories we keep. The end contains pages to help parents guild their children through the grief process. This is a book we have on our bookshelf.
Lifetimes: The Beautiful Way to Explain Death to Children by Bryan Mellonie (ages 5 and up) explains the concept of death as a cycle of beginnings, endings and the life in between. The book begins by using examples from nature to help explain this difficult concept to children. The book ends with gently discussing the life cycle of people. This is a book we have on our bookshelf.
Anna’s Big Wish by Tracy Harding–I have not read this book but it was recommended to me a few weeks ago as a good resource to help children with loss. 100% of the proceeds of the book go to Brigham and Women’s Hospital in Boston. Visit the website to learn more about the book and check out the bereavement resources for children on their site. https://annasbigwish.com/
Nelson Mandela International Day is celebrated on July 18th around the world. Nelson Mandela was born on July 18, 1918 in South Africa and spent his life fighting against apartheid, racism and for equal rights for everyone in his country. He spent over 30 years of his life in prison because of his work to end apartheid. After his release from prison in 1990 he worked with South African President, FR de Klerk, to end apartheid. This work won them both the Nobel Peace prize in 1993.
In 1994 all people were allowed to vote for the first time in the South Africa election and Nelson Mandela became the first black president of South Africa. In 1999, he stepped down the from world of politics and started the Nelson Mandela Foundation, an organization that works to promote the principals of equality, freedom and peace. A great way to celebrate Nelson Mandela, his perseverance and his work for civil rights is to share a book with your children about his life. Here are a few of our favorites and an interview done on his 90th birthday.
Nelson Mandela by Kadir Nelson is a beautiful book about his life. This is a great overview of his entire life and the work he did to end apartheid in South Africa. The illustrations are incredible and this book is a recipient of the Coretta Scott King honor award. I would recommend this book to ages 4 and up. You will find a YouTube link of the story below where it is beautifully read by a child.
Granddad Mandela is a beautiful book written by Nelson Mandela’s daughter and his great grandchildren, Zazi and Ziwelene Mandela. In this story Zazi and Ziwelene asking questions about their great grandad’s life to their grandmother. It is a very child friendly way to learn about Nelson’s life as leader and activist for civil rights in South Africa. I would recommend this book to ages 4 and up.
Nelson Mandela, Long Walk to Freedom is the official picture-book edition of Nelson Mandela’s bestselling autobiography. This book was abridged by Chris Van Wyk and beautifully illustrated by Paddy Bouma. It is a kid friendly version of his autobiography and covers his entire life. This book would be great for children ages 6 and up.
This book from the Who Was..? series is all about Nelson Mandela and his life. This book is perfect for children ages 8 and up to read on their own.
From the publisher: “As a child he dreamt of changing South Africa; as a man he changed the world. Nelson Mandela spent his life battling apartheid and championing a peaceful revolution. He spent twenty-seven years in prison and emerged as the inspiring leader of the new South Africa. He became the country’s first black president and went on to live his dream of change.”
An Interview with Nelson Mandela on his 90th Birthday